MOTHER: A Mirror of “Path to Spirituality” By Mirza Ashraf

MOTHER: A Mirror of “Path to Spirituality”

The heart of a Mother is most beautiful and the best.

It cannot be seen or even touchedit must be felt with heart.

(Ashraf)

God created the elements of: Attention, Beauty, Compassion, Devotion, Enthusiasm, Emotion, Forgiveness, Faith, Feeling, Generosity, Gratitude, Grace, Humility, Hope, Hospitality, Imagination, Joy, Kindness, Laughter, Love, Logic, Morality, Meaning, Nurturing, Openness, Piety, Peace, Patience, Quest, Reason, Reverence, Silence, Spirituality, Suffering, Teaching, Unity, Vision, Wonder, Yearning, Zeal, etc., mixed them all and formed the ‘Spirit of Motherhood.’ God then infused it in the Heart and Mind of a woman—the wife of man—the very moment she got conceived to become a Mother. Thus, the responsible life of a woman got realized in the sacred moment of her attaining the Motherhood. The Prophet of Islam (pbuh) pronounced that “Paradise lies under the feet of a Mother.”

Understanding of reason and logic through five-sensory personality originate in the mind. The higher order of understanding that is capable of meaningfully reflecting the soul comes from the heart. Discussing each of the element, mentioned above, embedded in the heart of a mother, needs a big-book size explanation. However, to explain some of them will help understand, how a mother is mirror to the path of spirituality. Reflecting upon the element of emotion, we all know that a mother is very intimate with her emotions, so far so that she is capable of perceiving the dynamics that lie behind them. Emotions reflect intentions and just like currents of energy, pass through every one of us. Awareness of these currents are the first step of learning ‘how our experiences come into being and why.’ Without an awareness of emotions, one is not able to experience Reverence. Because a mother is very intimate to emotions, Reverence becomes a way of her being.  The path to Reverence is through a mother’s heart, and an awareness of such feelings opens her heart. This higher order of logic and understanding of the multisensory personality of a mother reveals connectedness between the forty elements—and there are many more—mentioned in the beginning. It is the Reverence of a mother that the Prophet of Islam said three times, respect your mother, and after that said only one time, respect your father.

Throughout a person’s lifetime, starting from the first cry as a new born baby—the only cry that fills a mother’s heart with joy, the cry that opens her arms for the first embrace of her baby and mother’s spiritual love is transmitted to the heart and soul of the baby—to the last breath of his life, that person’s effort continues for spiritual growth and self-development. Life as a process of growth, from one stage to the next, is spiritual as well as physical. These stages may be described in many ways, but fundamentally they include: a foundation stage set by one’s mother when the knowledge of truth or the gift of salvation is first acquired; a growth stage where the person practices that truth, develops virtue, self-control, insight, and self-confidence; and finally the stage of maturity where the person realizes the fullness of perfection: the stage of oneness with his God as well as the humanity. A person may reach the final stage of perfection, even a stage where one may feel God’s presence directly, but for a mother that person is still like a newborn baby. More often in a mother’s person Divine presence manifests indirectly—as an opening of the heart, a burst of joy, an expansion of love, or feelings of deep compassion.

Spiritual maturity is an acceptance of life in relationship, first with mother, and then with the rest of humankind. Once a mother opens the door of relationship, it forms a spiritual web of one’s life with other peoples with the crucial strands of being family, friends, marriages, and partnerships. Our deepest values are expressed through the essential bond of relationship. The relationship established through marriage is a fundamental, the deepest, most mysterious, and most profound exploration open to humankind; it is plunging into one another’s Soul. The marriage of two persons is brutally intimate and closest one that it becomes a sacred adventure; an adventure that divinizes the woman when she becomes a mother. Just like God, a mother is embellished with an unconditional love for her offspring. A verse from a film song, “ay maan teri surat se alug bhagwan ki surat kaya ho gi,” beautifully portrays ‘what is a mother.’

Going to Mother’s Kitchen

Mother’s kitchen is a culinary alchemy,

a place where we cookactually

and spiritually. We come to it

for nourishment and serenity.

We come to it as to a center

the heart of the house,

the heart of dwelling.

In the kitchen we are one,

linked by hunger

actual hunger and spiritual hunger.

We go to MOTHER’s kitchen to be

nourished and revealed.

What a holy place is a MOTHER’s  kitchen!

(By: Gunhilla Norris)

Mirza Ashraf

Pakistani society can be Islamic and modern, if it becomes pluralistic and multicultural

Two insurrections pose an existential threat to Pakistan. One is a long-standing guerilla struggle of the Baloch nationalists for their cultural and political rights as well as for the control of the province’s economic resources. The second rebellion is recent in origin but poses a lethal challenge to the Pakistani state. Lead by the Taliban movement known as the Tehrik-e-Taliban Pakistan (TTP), its goals are revolutionary: to take over the government and enforce their own version of Islamic Sharia laws. The TTP is intertwined with the Afghan Taliban and has links with Al Qaeda of the global Jihad.

The Taliban have exposed the military’s vulnerability by attacking such high security establishments as the army headquarters, air bases and army garrisons. Their aims extend beyond toppling the government. They have also blown up mosques and shrines of the Islamic sects that do not subscribe to their puritanical beliefs, targeted cinemas, and music stores and girls’ schools to purge ‘corrupt western culture’.

The South Asia Terrorism Portal estimates that 51,585 combatants and non-combatants have been killed since 2003. The military has lost 5,681 soldiers and officers. The injured are in the hundreds of thousands and displaced persons number in the millions. Karachi and Peshawar have suffered particularly from Taliban’s suicide bombs, targeted killings and kidnappings. But other cities have not entirely escaped. Taliban seem to have cells everywhere.

Taliban’s aims extend beyond toppling the government

The state cannot collect taxes from the rich and influential, enforce laws and provide basic services. Electricity outages have crippled industries and made daily life unbearable. Almost one-third of the population lives on less than $1.25 a day. Pakistan has become a country of ‘hollow institutions’ where instruments of a modern state exist in form, but they fail to perform their mandated functions.

The enigma of Pakistan is that its state is imploding but its society is resilient and people entrepreneurial. The society is modernizing fast. Almost 27% of households in the largest province, Punjab, have motorcycles. There are about 100 TV channels and 650 registered newspapers and magazines in Pakistan. About 70 percent of the population has cell phones, filtering down among the poor of this low-income country. The stock exchange has been on a tear, setting new records in prices and trade. Real estate is booming. Cities are choked with traffic.

Fashion shows, literary festivals and music competitions give a cosmopolitan sheen to alistscities of Karachi, Lahore and Islamabad-Rawalpindi. About 12-13 billion dollars are remitted annually by Pakistani expatriates, buoying up the consumer culture. A visitor to Pakistan would be dazzled by the palatial houses and overflowing restaurants. Yet it is a country where death stalks everyday and poverty drives people to suicide. People have become fatalistic in the face of violence and disorder.

Why has Pakistan come to this? Of course there are the usual explanations: political instability, democratic deficit, recurrent military rules, deviation from its ideology, corrupt and poor administration. And then there are theories of blaming others, Indian conspiracies, American perfidy, Jewish hostility, international attempts to neutralize the only Muslim nuclear power and so on. Underlying them are deeper and enduring conditions that have torn Pakistan apart, but are not open to discussion.

Pakistan is besieged by moral and intellectual crises. Its imagined culture is based on ideas and beliefs that offer little guidance for the lived life. Pakistan’s state has continually retreated in the face of the Islamic clergy, thereby yielding to them the authority to forge moral narratives. Pakistan’s ruling elite adopted the strategy of ‘playing along’ with the Mullahs, hoping to appease them politically without facing up to the consequences of their promises. Even the Taliban were initially nurtured by the state as an instrument of Jihad in Indian Kashmir and for maintaining influence in Afghanistan. They are now bringing Jihad home.

Pakistan’s successive constitutions have been documents of contradictory goals. They promise democracy, freedom, equality and social justice, while envisaging bringing laws and social life in line with the requirements of particular interpretations of Islam. Islamic teachings admit of many interpretations, liberal, orthodox, modernist, fundamentalist and sectarian. The authority to interpret Islamic provisions has been conceded to Mullahs and traditionalists. In the contest for the power of agency, the liberal Islam has lost to the fundamentalist certainties of those who have the pulpits.

While the Islamic political parties have repeatedly failed in elections, they captured the universities and shaped the school curriculums in the1960s and 70s. Generations of engineers, doctors, teachers and military men, albeit the educated classes, have grown up on a diet of orthodox Islamic ideas and rituals. The Islamization of personal beliefs stands in contrast with the modernization of lifestyles. Individuals bridge this chasm by rationalizing their own lifestyle as the reflection of the ‘real’ Islam.

The Taliban have grown out of this ideological conundrum. The Islamic political parties and the clergy savor the prospect of the Taliban ushering them to power.

Despite past failed peace agreements, Pakistan’s government is again negotiating with the TTP. Most of the political parties and religious bodies favor peace negotiations. They argue that the Taliban, ‘are our brethren’, why not negotiate with them, as even the US and the Afghan leaders have been courting the Afghan Taliban. The TTP has suddenly become a stakeholder in national affairs. By negotiating with the Taliban, the government has unwittingly changed the political map of Pakistan. Islamic parties and Mullahs have become power brokers by becoming interlocutors for the Taliban.

The state has not protected free speech. Since the 1970s, Islamic student organizations have been allowed to violently repress alternative viewpoints in universities and colleges. Educational curriculums have been turned into indoctrination tools of orthodox religiosity. Over the years Islamic scholars of liberal leanings have been hounded out, while the state stood as a mute witness. General Zia’s regime sanctified these practices. In Pakistan, the state intervenes in religion to support the orthodox narrative.

Presently journalists who express liberal views are attacked. Mullahs issue Fatwas with impunity declaring other sects as apostates liable to be killed. Blasphemy laws have led to mob justice. Christians, Ahmadis, and Hindus as minorities get no protection from the state. The state has surrendered its responsibility to protect people from the zealots’ violence. Self-censorship is the rule for survival.

Pakistani society and state are unsustainable by the extant narratives of the Islamic order. But liberal Islamic ideas and secular narratives have been practically banished. The expediency politics of the ruling classes, both political and military, has suppressed alternative viewpoints.

Pakistan’s society can be Islamic and modern, if it becomes pluralistic and multicultural. To attain that, the state has to forcefully implement the constitutionally promised freedom of thought and expression and provide security for open inquiry. No one should be allowed to threaten others for their views and issue Fatwas of death. Coercive powers should be reserved for the due process of the state.

An article in Friday Times, Pakistan by Prof. Qadeer

Submitted by Sohail Rizvi

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Composites: German Language and ‘Things Fall Apart’

An enjoyable worth reading book review by Jalees Rehman. It is not only a review on the book, but also compares and explores the beauty of German and English writing. Some excerpts from the review;

“Shorter sentences and simple words!” was the battle cry of all my English teachers. Their comments and corrections of our English-language essays and homework assignments were very predictable. Apparently, they had all sworn allegiance to the same secret Fraternal Order of Syntax Police. I am sure that students of the English language all over the world have heard similar advice from their teachers, but English teachers at German schools excel in their diligent use of linguistic guillotines to chop up sentences and words. The problem is that they have to teach English to students who think, write and breathe in German, the lego of languages.

Lego blocks invite the observer to grab them and build marvelously creative and complex structures. The German language similarly invites its users to construct composite words and composite sentences. A virtually unlimited number of composite nouns can be created in German, begetting new words which consist of two, three or more components with meanings that extend far beyond the sum of their parts. The famous composite German word “Schadenfreude” is now used worldwide to describe the shameful emotion of joy when observing harm befall others. It combines “Schaden” (harm or damage) and “Freude” (joy), and its allure lies in the honest labeling of a guilty pleasure and the inherent tension of combining two seemingly discordant words.

The lego-like qualities of German can also be easily applied to how sentences are structured. Commas are a German writer’s best friends. A German sentence can contain numerous clauses and sub-clauses, weaving a quilt of truths, tangents and tangential truths, all combined into the serpentine splendor of a single sentence. Readers may not enjoy navigating their way through such verschachtelt sentences, but writers take great pleasure in envisioning a reader who unwraps a sentence as if opening a matryoshka doll only to find that the last word of a mammoth sentence negates its fore-shadowed meaning.

Even though our teachers indulged such playfulness when we wrote in German, they were all the more harsh when it came to our English assignments. They knew that we had a hankering for creating long sentences, so they returned them to us covered in red ink markings, indicative of their syntactic fervor. This obsession with short sentences and words took the joy out of writing in English. German was the language of beauty and poetry, whereas English became the language best suited for efficient communication. By the time I reached my teenage years, I began to lose interest in writing anything in English beyond our mandatory school assignments. I still enjoyed reading books in English, such as the books of Enid Blyton, but I could not fathom how a language of simple sentences and simple words could be used to create works of literary beauty. This false notion fell apart when I first read “Things Fall Apart” by Chinua Achebe.

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I was not prepared for the impact the book would have on me. Great books shake us up, change us in a profound and unpredictable manner, leaving footprints that are etched into the rinds of our soul. “Things Fall Apart” was the first great English language book that I read. I was mesmerized by its language. This book was living proof that one could write a profound and beautiful book in English, using short, simple sentences.

As the Ibo say: “When the moon is shining the cripple becomes hungry for a walk.”

And so Okonkwo was ruled by one passion– to hate everything that his father Unoka had loved. One of those things was gentleness and another was idleness.

Living fire begets cold, impotent ash.

A child cannot pay for its mother’s milk.

It wasn’t just the beautiful language, aphorisms, Igbo proverbs and haunting images that made this book so unique. “Things Fall Apart” contained no heroes. The books that I had read before “Things Fall Apart” usually made it obvious who the hero was. But “Things Fall Apart” was different. Okonkwo was no hero, not even a tragic hero. But he also was no villain. As with so many of the characters in the book, I could see myself in them and yet I was also disgusted by some of the abhorrent acts they committed. I wanted to like Okonkwo, but I could not like a man who participated in the killing of his adopted son or nearly killed his wife in a fit of anger.

Most of us would end up being neither true
heroes nor true villains but composites of heroism and villainy.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/jalees-rehman/composites-german-languag_b_3353564.html

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Salman Rushdie on Indian Elections

A 10 minute video on Indian elections, Democracy, freedom of speech and religion. A worth watching video. While watching video, one cannot help but think of situation in Burma. I hope all these fears are wrong, because sometime serious responsibility changes a person and governance is different from political rhetoric. If present extremism is not tamed, it can have serious consequences not only  for the whole Indian sub-continent, but possibly beyond the sub-continent. Click link below to watch video.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jfKd-4oCZ4o

Posted by F. Sheikh